Pinned7 dos and don’ts for online datingI recently ventured into the world of online dating. And what a fascinating world it is! I had never been one to consider online dating as a serious contender for ways to meet my significant other, but with COVID changing the way we socialise — I had no other choice. …Dating5 min read
PinnedThe Unavoidable Pitfalls of Dating OnlineDating online seems to be the most popular way we search for love today. If you’re not doing it, you’re likely to know at least one person who is. It’s a journey filled with ups and downs — sometimes, twists and turns. …Online Dating4 min read
Published in New Writers Welcome·May 9The More Appropriate Spirit Animal for LupusThey call it the hidden disease. — Mistaken for other diseases and disorders, confusing doctors and patients alike, it can take years to diagnose. Lupus. An autoimmune disease in which the body’s immune system becomes hyperactive and attacks its own healthy tissues and organs. Lupus. A Latin word meaning “wolf”. The name was given by a thirteenth-century…Lupus3 min read
Published in The Daily Cuppa·May 9The stranger on the flightA writing prompt. — As she sat next to me, she turned her head, and for a moment; our eyes locked. Though it was brief, I noticed something in her eyes. Fear, perhaps? I shook the thought out of my mind. Maybe she was nervous, being on a plane. It could be her first…The Daily Cuppa1 min read
Apr 7An Anthem for the Melanin-Rich Skinned WomanHave you ever heard a song for the first time and it immediately became your anthem? Maybe it’s Destiny’s Child’s ‘Survivor’, after overcoming a serious illness. Maybe it’s Alicia Keys’ ‘Underdog’, as you hustle to make your dream a reality from less than favourable circumstances. For me, that song is…Women Of Color3 min read
Published in What Is Love To You?·Mar 11The complexities of loveDefining this multi-layered concept. What is love? It’s a question that can’t be answered in a single sentence. Not all love is the same. From romantic to familial and even platonic, love presents itself in different forms, depending on the nature of the relationship. There are different types of love…Love3 min read
Published in New Writers Welcome·Mar 1Why I like to be aloneThere’s nothing like it. Being alone, that is. I love silence, serenity, solitude. It fuels me. Left to process my thoughts without distraction or interruption. Able to let down my guard. Free to be me in my real, raw state. Nobody else around to judge, comment or complain. I promise…Personal Reflection2 min read
Feb 26My journey to 100 followers on MediumI’ve been writing and sharing my stories on Medium for a while now. Writing on this platform has encouraged me to unlock a level of vulnerability I never allowed myself to reach previously. It’s challenged me to let people in on my thoughts, feelings and experiences. Though at times I…100 Followers2 min read
Feb 14How to Conquer Online Networking as an IntrovertWhen you hear the word “networking” what emotion does it provoke? Anxiety? Dread? Nervousness? If you’re an extrovert or even just an all-around “people person”, it could evoke a sense of thrill or excitement at the thought of meeting someone new. Someone who previously wasn’t a part of your world…Networking4 min read
Aug 22, 2021How COVID-19 transformed the way we “small talk”And I like it. Is that wrong to say? Yes, the COVID pandemic has brought with it devastating consequences for people and nations across the world. Its path of destruction has left behind a spectrum of suffering from the loss of freedom through to the loss of life. This time…Covid 193 min read